Should they have an army, they'll likely lead it, although you'll be the one paying their upkeep. As long as they don't have an army, you'll find them in one of your cities or castles. Your spouse and their party will automatically move into your clan. Marriage in Mount & Blade II: Bannerlord has a couple of benefits. Add enough items or money to fill the bar on the left side of the dialog box to and you're now married without having to go through any additional steps like wedding ceremonies. Thankfully, once you do reach the father or family head, you simply need to barter to secure the marriage. Having won over your future spouse, there's one more step before you can marry, and it involves asking for permission from their father or family leader, whose whereabouts you can learn by asking your future spouse.Īfter you know who you're supposed to track down as well as where they were last seen, you'll have to go off on a chase which can be over quickly or last for quite a while, depending on where you are and how well you guess your target's route through Calradia. Naturally, the highest yellow number offers the best chance of success, however, luck won't always be on your side.īy default you'll need to complete the minigame successfully a few times before you can progress towards marriage in Mount & Blade 2: Bannerlord, however, some players have reported getting lucky with persuasion checks that expedited the whole process. You'll have to select the correct option two or three times.ĭon't worry about having to guess the right choices, though, as yellow arrows and red X marks will show the chance of both success and failure of each dialogue option. This will kick off a conversation minigame during which you'll have to put your character's skills to use. Picking the wrong choices can lead to the character losing interest in you, so tread carefully.Īfter expressing your interest to marry them, select the dialogue option that mentions spending time together.

During it, you have to win over your future spouse through various dialogue options.

Start by asking to discuss with them, tell them you're an ardent admirer of theirs and that you wish to offer your hand in marriage then, the courting phase begins. Polygamy isn't a thing in Mount & Blade II: Bannerlord at the moment.

Right-clicking people of the opposing sex opens up their Encyclopedia page which lets you see whether or not they're married. You might have to visit a few castles or large towns at different times before you find one that's not empty persistence is key. When near a castle or a large town, either head to the Lords Hall or select the person you want to pursue from the row of portraits at the top of the screen. The path towards marriage in Mount & Blade 2: Bannerlord begins with finding a suitable spouse.

Mount and blade sneaking into castle